I believe that small nudges matter.
When I have been out of the game for a long time, years, how on earth to I get back in again?
Start small. Make nudges in the right direction and you slowly start to move within different orbits.
I started posting comments, updating my blog, placing adverts in the right places, and connections began to be made.
The majority of men who contact me are incredibly lacking. Despite the very clear instructions I provide, and the rare opportunity I present, men just think that they can write a few sentences of drivel to be considered. No.
My standards were high before, but now they are even higher. I will not tolerate anything less than I deserve. Never again.
Conversely, I have had some very detailed and appropriate applications but from men who were not suitable.
I knew I would know when the correct one came. I knew it would speak to me.
As 2025 was about to close, that message arrived.
I am not so naive as to think this is definitely the right one, but all the necessary things are there to give it a fighting chance. But, more than this, it has given me hope. A grain of hope. It has confirmed my belief that there are men of the calibre I seek.
For now, the door has quietly closed to new applicants, so I can give my full attention to exploring this possibility.
I will, of course, keep you updated.
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