Keyholding is far more than just having a key in your pocket, or on a necklace around your neck.
It is about developing a relationship of extreme control. Chastity is intense... it is incessant...it is control which never leaves you. It isnt just there during play. It is a lifestyle of submission, and being a keyholder is about being responsible for that submission.
As a keyholder I have the power to break a man's will, to completely break him and make him a wreck. It is a deeply emotional journey for both Mistress and slave, and one that involves total trust.
Equally, being a keyholder isnt just about saying no. It is about gaining that trust in the first place. It is about understanding the trauma you can cause, but making it appealing, so that your sub craves it more and more and comes to enjoy that trauma, and eventually feel comforted by it and in the end believe he actually needs it...
Becoming someones Mistress/Keyholder isnt a job I would ever take on lightly. It involves commitment and devotion from both sides. It is a demanding role, but one which I would relish and thrive on.
It is nigh on impossible to find someone willing to commit to long term chastity control and even more unlikey for me to find someone who I could commit to to offer keyholding to - he has to be just right....
but if I ever do find the right man in my lifetime, he will be assured of an extreme ride.
It is about developing a relationship of extreme control. Chastity is intense... it is incessant...it is control which never leaves you. It isnt just there during play. It is a lifestyle of submission, and being a keyholder is about being responsible for that submission.
As a keyholder I have the power to break a man's will, to completely break him and make him a wreck. It is a deeply emotional journey for both Mistress and slave, and one that involves total trust.
Equally, being a keyholder isnt just about saying no. It is about gaining that trust in the first place. It is about understanding the trauma you can cause, but making it appealing, so that your sub craves it more and more and comes to enjoy that trauma, and eventually feel comforted by it and in the end believe he actually needs it...
Becoming someones Mistress/Keyholder isnt a job I would ever take on lightly. It involves commitment and devotion from both sides. It is a demanding role, but one which I would relish and thrive on.
It is nigh on impossible to find someone willing to commit to long term chastity control and even more unlikey for me to find someone who I could commit to to offer keyholding to - he has to be just right....
but if I ever do find the right man in my lifetime, he will be assured of an extreme ride.
It is wonderful to come across someone who really understands.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes in your search.